Good day, Ma
I deeply appreciate all your efforts, Ma. I have some exciting news to share. But first, let me share a bit of my journey with you, Ma. I made a conscious decision to wait for marriage before getting into a relationship.
At a point, I came across your teachings several years ago, and you became a significant influence in my life. Your words instilled in me the courage to pursue my chosen path.
Today, to the glory of God, I have completed my education, finished my national service, have maintained my purity, am fulfilling my purpose, and have found the man of my dreams. I am set to get married in September this year, all thanks to God!
Sandra
Beloved members of the community,
I urge everyone to be attentive to the needs of young girls around us. Recently, a 15-year-old girl from Edo State contacted me seeking counsel as she felt she had no one else to turn to after reading my article on NewsNow. Although my contact details were shared for WhatsApp purposes only, I felt compelled by my spirit to answer the call!
She shared with me a disturbing situation where her 38-year-old neighbor was pressuring her, claiming that God had chosen her to be his wife. She seemed to be deeply influenced and almost infatuated by his advances.
After advising her to stay away from him, I encouraged her to inform her parents. However, she revealed that her parents resided in Benue State. Due to economic hardships and various other factors, many young girls are living independently without proper supervision.
Typically, a young girl living away from her parents is vulnerable to different forms of abuse. This girl sounded distressed and disoriented, possibly lacking self-esteem, and in need of care and attention. The man’s manipulative tactics could potentially alter her life’s trajectory.
One can only imagine if he has been showering her with gifts, providing luxuries beyond her means, and feeding her lines of flattery, thus making her susceptible to his advances. In the unfortunate event of an unwanted pregnancy, her life would take a drastic turn.
It is vital to recognize the immense pressure and confusion faced by young girls in today’s morally corrupt world. You might be startled to learn about the individuals preying on your daughters.
Young ladies, no matter how confident you feel in matters of love due to your youthfulness and romantic influences, it is improbable to identify your life partner in your teens as you have not fully discovered yourself yet. Avoid unnecessary complications and exercise patience.
The world is becoming increasingly challenging, and only those adequately prepared will excel. Invest your teenage years in building a solid foundation for your future across various aspects of life. Do not allow any man to distract you with hollow promises of love.
History has shown that young girls who refrain from early romantic entanglements often thrive more than those who experience heartbreaks and turbulent relationships. The world is competitive; solidify your future and let worthy men pursue you.
Everyone,
Each young girl is a pillar of society’s future. Let us strive to raise responsible individuals, avoiding the emergence of societal vices. We aspire to create a better future for our descendants despite the prevailing challenges. Offer guidance to young girls in a world where females are frequently marginalized. May God safeguard our children and shield our girls from evil influences!
Are you engaging in premarital relations? Each encounter diminishes your value. Your true potential awaits. Embrace abstinence and join the Girls Club by sending a text with your name, age, educational status or profession, and state of residence to 07086620576.