The parents of a prospective in-law were unhappy when he refused to show their daughter where he resides in Europe. According to a user of X who shared the story, the prospective in-law had been engaged to a Nigerian lady in January, had an introduction ceremony, and planned to have a December wedding. Despite this, the parents asked him to allow their daughter to visit his residence in Europe, but he kept avoiding it. When he came to visit the lady’s parents to further their wedding plans, he was chased away. The user believes that the Igbo tradition of investigating and visiting the groom’s family and residence before the wedding is important.