A confession by a Nigerian man reveals that he has been engaging in multiple extramarital affairs, attributing his behavior to being pressured into marriage at the age of 22.
Having impregnated his wife a decade ago, he found himself compelled to marry her, all the while maintaining relationships with other women.
Despite his infidelity, he acknowledges feeling remorse, especially towards his wife. He mentions having a single mistress, whom he met recently, but expresses guilt over the situation.
He claims that this new woman has caused him to change his behavior and cease involvement with other women, indicating a significant impact on him.
In his own words, he stated, “I got married at 22. I take care of my wife and my kids, they go to the best school in my community and they lived in the house I bought for them on the Island. I’ve been cheating all through the marriage, I’m not proud of it but maybe because I got married early at 22 when I got her pregnant. So I’ve been cheating since then for the past 10yrs now with different women and I tried to hide it from her. She only caught me once.
Now I met this new girl I’m cheating with, and since I met her last year I’ve only been cheating with her and no one else, I dont believe I can stop sleeping with multiple women until I met her. Now I’m afraid of losing her, if that happens I’ll go back to my cheating with multiple women.
The girl I’m cheating with changed me, at least I stopped sleeping around. I’m sorry to my wife, she’s a good woman, I’m sorry she met someone like me who couldn’t love her enough to stop cheating. Goodbye.”