The statement made by Nigerian woman Rosemary Isong about her views on financial dynamics in a relationship has sparked a lively online discussion. Isong expressed her strong opinion that the absence of open communication about money matters in a relationship raises a significant concern for her. She emphasized her belief that financial transparency and the ability to openly discuss money issues are crucial components of a healthy relationship.
Isong conveyed that she would find it troubling if her partner never sought financial assistance from her, even for relatively small amounts such as N20,000 or N50,000. She also expressed that if her significant other turned to friends for financial help instead of approaching her, it would be disrespectful and potentially damaging to their relationship. Isong further revealed that reciprocity and trust are fundamental principles in her financial philosophy within a relationship.
The Nigerian lady went on to state that if she had been dating someone for six months and they had never asked for financial help, it would be a deal breaker for her. Isong’s remarks prompted a diverse range of reactions on various social media platforms.
Users’ Reactions…
“@tweetsbyobinna” shared, “This may not apply all the time, like myself, I don’t think that I will need money from my girl. But for mrn like me, sometimes make her pay for a food or sth we bought together that you think she can afford. Tell her to recharge you and when she does, pay her back… Just be a man. That’s it.”
“@Emeka_Anyanwu_” admitted, “I de owe my babe 6600, 😂…. I never pay back she don use small small spend more than 50k on my head under 1month and 3weeks.”
Reactions to Isong’s statement exemplified varying perspectives on the topic.