- Tamica Wilder, an American woman, disclosed that she informed her husband 11 years ago about her desire to be with him and someone else.
- She explained that, at the beginning, her husband had difficulty understanding her choice, but he has come to accept it.
Tamica Wilder has shared the dynamics of living under the same roof with her husband, children, and boyfriend.
She informed her husband 11 years ago about her intention to be with him and someone else.
She invited her lover to their home with her husband’s knowledge, and he accepted her decision.
She had expressed her desire for a polyamorous relationship, which was non-negotiable, to her husband, as reported by The New York Post.
They became stronger as a couple by allowing themselves to explore and be open-minded.
After 11 years of marriage and giving birth to their two sons, Tamika met her boyfriend at a festival.
She kept meeting her boyfriend at different locations until he eventually moved into their family home.
Although his arrival was not a smooth transition, with time, he bonded with her husband, and they became one big happy family.
In her words, “The kids loved having two father figures, actually. It was like three parents to two kids, which is amazing, like you can imagine having an extra – someone’s playing with them, someone’s finishing up their work, and someone’s cooking dinner.”
She added, “I’m not willing to not see this person again. There’s something there with us, and it’s a thread that I want to follow.”
“It’s just the same as a regular relationship, but with extra people. There were some days we’d look at each other like, ‘Oh my God, this is awesome.”